Military Families Facing Food Shortages May Not Ask For Our Help, But Here’s How We Still Can

Although many donors are willing to donate to soup kitchens or food banks, which aim to provide quality food services to those who are not able to afford food for themselves and/or their family, however, while donors are busy in finding the right community or government programs collecting donations, military families are usually ignored in the process due to their supposed financial stability.

According to data, the extent of food insecurity faced by military families or veteran families is greater than the that faced by the general population in America. According to one survey conducted in 2017, almost 15% of military families face times when they are unable to afford food as compared to 12.9% of the general population of America.
When this finding was further researched, surprisingly it was found that factors that contribute to food shortages, such as a financial crisis, were the same for non-military families as well as for military families.

However, the only difference is that military families usually do not seek support through common support channels, even when they need support to put a decent meal on the table. In fact, their need for household expenditure is greater considering the fact that they have to relocate to different regions all the time. These families are accustomed to resolving their problems on their own and are reluctant to ask for help regarding daycare or food shortages.

While donors are busy in finding the right community or government programs collecting donations, military families are usually ignored in the process due to their supposed financial stability

The Military Family Advisory Network

According to the Military Families Advisory Network, these families are reluctant to ask for help even when it is to fulfill their basic needs because they are trained to survive on their own as well as have learned to make sacrifices for others. For this reason, they believe in self-reliance and do not want to put their food shortage burden on the system as it is already overburdened. Instead, they want to stay at the back-end. A core belief that causes further reluctance is the fact that military families believe that the general population is facing a tougher time than them, and hence are more deserving of financial aid.

Another reason could be that their self-image or their pride takes a hit when they ask for help. According to the Advisory Network, many military families who do not accept any food support are actually working very hard to meet their financial resource requirements behind the closed doors of their homes.

According to the Advisory Network, these families are reluctant to ask for help even when it is to fulfill their basic needs because they are trained to survive on their own as well as have learned to make sacrifices for others.

The Fear of Possible Problems

On the other hand, some veteran families also believe that displaying hardships, even with respect to shortages of food, could impact their employment. In fact, seeking food support through common channels could affect their security clearance issues. For example, if any family seeks help of any military aid program, then they fear it will jeopardize their image and they could be deemed as unfit to the service.

Considering these challenges, the Advisory Network has intimated different organizations including Red Cross, Center for Food Research, USO, United Way, and Feeding America to address the concerns of military families with respect to food insecurity issue and suggest a long-term plan to resolve this problem. Such discussions on large platforms will definitely give a confidence boost to military families and they will feel more relieved while seeking help regarding food support. There is no doubt that these organizations need to present military family problems as a matter of concern so these families do not view asking for such support as a sign of weakness.

On the other hand, some veteran families also believe that displaying hardships, even with respect to shortages of food, could impact their employment.

The Purpose

The purpose of this effort is to support military families through different channels by providing them information with respect to deserving families that need food support or day care services. In order to preserve the respect and dignity of recipients, they would be offered part time jobs in exchange for the support they will get through these channels. Another way of providing support can be offering them goods at discounted prices at grocery shops, which would help them in affording a quality meal at home.

The aim is to seek out a long-term plan which is sustainable in addressing the requirements of these families. However, building a sense of responsibility towards military families would be critical to incorporate in the model. Being a donor, it is important to understand the requirements of the recipients and then making arrangements to offer them help through the proper channels, at least in a way that they would accept.